Visiting the breath-taking Swinger Building’s porcelain collection in Dresden this week I was taken by a 16th Century Chinese vase. The hundreds of rounded characters decorating the vase, called ‘shou’, represent long life, happiness and energy.   Appreciating this ancient creation, still exquisite despite flecks and small cracks on its surface.  made me reflect on ageing “beautifully”.

Porcelain vase

We need not be ashamed of our ageing process, despite the celebrity culture and media pressure to look so much younger than our years.  Each line tells the story of our well-lived lives, our wisdom and experience; each crease shows the sum of our laughter.   Let’s wear them with pride.

Here are some positive quotes about ageing which I like :

“And the beauty of a woman, with passing years only grows!”  Audrey Hepburn

“If you are pining for youth I think it produces a stereotypical old man because you only live in memory, you live in a place that doesn’t exist. Aging is an extraordinary process where you become the person you always should have been.”   David Bowie

“You don’t stop laughing when you grow old, you grow old when you stop laughing.”  George Bernard Shaw

“My face carries all my memories. Why would I erase them?” Diane Von Furstenberg, from “The Woman I Wanted to Be,” 2014

“The longer I live, the more beautiful life becomes.” Frank Lloyd Wright


Some of these quotes were from this site:  Quotes from Senior Planet

The Chinese vase celebrates ageing beautifully in the true sense of the word – let’s try to make sure we all do this too.

And please note – the knob of the vase lid is deliberately decorated with a powerful dragon.   Never forget the inner power you still possess even as you age.


Debbie King

Between 2014 and 2016 I took time out to travel alone around Europe, blogging about my experiences, discoveries and personal development on One of the many beautiful lessons I learned was the possibility of self-discovery and personal growth at any age. I am now passionate about achieving and encouraging successful ageing and making this a Silver Not Grey journey. I hope that Age With Me can inform, inspire, and accompany you on your silver journey. If you want to send me a comment you can do so privately or publicly. If publicly your email address need not be displayed. Please specify if you wish your comment to be private and seen only by me, thank you.

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